David Letter

My dear friend:

 

I don't think it's possible to change anyone's behavior but our own. I've had relationships where I thought I could change the other person. It doesn't really work. A person is whom they are. They can only change from within, not from our hopes or demands. That is why I've waited so long to get married. I want to find someone who I don't need to "change" or conform to my standards. I take the marriage vows very seriously. I don't believe in divorce.

 

                                  Your friend,

                                  David

What is your opinion of this? Do you think that someone can actually change another's behavior, or does it have to come from their own desire to change?

Honest letter to David

Are you able to change your wife's unwanted behavior after marriage?Do you think she can do the same if something in you bothers her ?How much do you think you can affect your wife in order to change her undesirable behaviors if there is one?

Yours

 

Honest letter to David

Thanks for the teacher info.They were helpful enough to give me an insight over teaching benefits there.The benefits American teachers get there is incomparable with Iranian teachers.....How are you doing? Today was tough(in that private school I told you about),I had to challenge some of my students because of their rude behavior and I managed to give them a "lesson".It made me feel good.If only I could quit!Tomorrow I have to teach for 14 hours:( Kindda rough and boring,Isn't it? Right now the phone rang.My second job is saying hello to me in a private English institute.  See?I teach 64 hours a week and I still have a second job.I am saying all this just to inform you that life becomes so hard sometimes and the hardships teachers are going through.That's why Iranians are among number one immigrants to the USA and European countries.I gotta get ready for the interview.Now who should feel sorry for whom:)?

Say hello to your family for me.

Yours,

Hussein