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Hello. How are you today? It's been a cold and rainy weekend so far here. When will it be spring? I keep asking myself that question, over and over. As you know, the catholic Christians have lost their religious leader this past weekend. It's been on the news quite a bit here. For Catholic's this is a sad day. I'm not catholic, but I think that the man was a good man, who tried to make peace in the world. We need more peace makers like him in this world of ours. My sister came over to visit me today, and brought me dinner. She's a great cook. It was delicious. Today, I received a letter from the family that I sponsor in Romania. I told you about this before I think. It's through a Christian organization that helps feed, clothe, educate children around the world in need, regardless Of their religious beliefs. I think it's a great organization. I love children, and want them to have a better life. It's nothing that I take personal credit for. I simply am doing what God wants and expects of us to do for others in need. In the bible we're told that when we give to those in need, it's as if we are giving to God himself. He wants us to love each other that much. I'm not preaching to you my friend, I'm just explaining my beliefs to you. Anyway, he's five years old, as cute as a button. He sends me drawings of trees and flowers. I hang the drawings on my refrigerator door so everyone who visits can see them. He's a good little boy. I wish the best for him and his family. How is your family? Is your sister doing any better than before? I hope she is. I keep you and your family in my prayers. Just like I would do for my own family. As I'm writing this, I'm listening to a CD of Sade. Have you ever heard of her? She's from England. I love her music. It's very relaxing and easy going. She sings beautifully. I wish I could share some of my music with you. I know you would like them. I think we probably would enjoy listening to the same music. I won't send any however, I don't want to cause you problems at home. I would one day like to meet you. We've talked a lot over these many weeks, and I feel like I know you personally. Maybe someday we will. Who knows? I've been trying to think of things to share with you of interest. We've already discussed politics, religion, sex, I think we haven't left anything out. What do you think? Is there anything you still want to know about my country, that you don't already know? I have a question that I just thought of while writing this to you........ You mentioned before about Americans thinking that men greeting each other with a kiss, might be considered "gay" here. Do you have gay people in Iran? If so, how are they represented? Here, and in the West in general, homosexuality is an accepted practice, and protected by laws. The government separates government from religion, and thus ensures the rights of the individual to be gay if they so wish. I'm not saying that it's accepted by all of society. We are a religious country, and it's against many of the religions represented in this society. I have my own religious views about it. However, It's not my place to judge another persons life or their choices. It's between them and God. How do you feel about the subject? How does your government treat this issue? I'm curious about the differences between the West and the middle eastern governments. I hope that I'm not asking too many dumb questions. I'm just curious about the world. well my friend, I must be climbing into bed and going to sleep. It's late here. Take care and God bless you and your family. Best wishes to all.
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Hello my friend. I'm glad that you liked the poem I sent. What did you mean by "I should be careful of my words"? I hope that I haven't offended you in anyway. Let me know what you meant, okay? I agree with you regarding democracy being a two edge sword. I think that with "freedom," comes responsibility. I think that an individual rights, needs to be balanced with the society as a whole. If everyone is doing exactly what they want, disregarding the rest of society, that's anarchy. Now onto the subject of Michael Jackson........
What do you think happened to him? I use to love his music years ago before he became this 'troubled person." It's really a shame. The man is very talented, and gifted. Somewhere fame and wealth changed him into what he now has become. It's unfortunate. Have you ever listened to his music in the past? He doesn't even look like the same person anymore. I wish I could send you a CD of "Sade." I think you would like her music. It's very relaxing and easy listening. Her music always has a meaning in the lyrics. Regarding the dating thing......
In America, the man usually still pays for the woman. If a man asks for a date, he pays for the dinner. Women like to think that their liberated, but the man still pays. The only difference might be if they are married, or have been going together for a long time. Then perhaps the woman might offer to pay. Americans are traditional still about that. The man would feel less than a man if he let the woman pay for him. I guess it's the macho thing. I was brought up to pay for the woman. Even when I'm out with my sister's I pay the check. I guess we're not too different when it comes to that. I remember a funny incident that happened to me when I was sixteen years old and on my first date. A bunch of my friends went out with our girlfriends bowling. When it came time to pay to rent the "bowling shoes," I couldn't find my wallet! My date saw that I was frantic looking for it, and decided to pay our way. The young man behind the counter looked at me, and said to her "you're out with the wrong guy, I wouldn't have you pay for me." I turned four different shades of red, with embarrassment. So you see, it's very cultural for the man to pay for the woman. It's kind of frowned upon for the woman to pay for the man. I look back at it now, and laugh at the situation. (I didn't then.) Today at work was rough! I came into work to find my coworkers behind in their work. I ended up helping them catch up, only to find myself behind in my duties. All evening long I was trying to catch up. I'm exhausted! I'm sending you something in the mail. I'm mailing it tomorrow. I think you will like it. You'll have to let me know when you receive it. Okay? I have another holiday coming up soon called "Passover." Have you heard of it? It commemorates God bringing the people out of slavery in Egypt. Well, my friend. I'm glad to hear from you as always. Reading your emails, I can't believe how well you express yourself in English. You speak English better than I do! Ha. Ha. I wish that I was well spoken in Spanish as you are in English. I don't often get the chance to speak and write as much as I would like to. I would like to learn some farsi as well. I'm curious as to what it sounds like to the ear. Does it sound like Arabic? Maybe I'll practice, and one day I will surprise you with fluent farsi. (Don't hold your breath on it though.) Take care my friend. It's been nice chatting with you. My regards to your family.
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